- SJ Lazy Boy: For example
- SJ Lazy Boy: what if you two talk tonight
- SJ Lazy Boy: and you two decide to finish it
- SJ Lazy Boy: and you two don't talk for
- SJ Lazy Boy: i dn't know, weeks, a month
- SJ Lazy Boy: and all of a sudden, one day next month
- SJ Lazy Boy: He decides to talk to you
- SJ Lazy Boy: for the first time in what seems like forever
- SJ Lazy Boy: And he gives you this really long and heartfelt speech about how much he missed you in his life and how much he wants it back
- SJ Lazy Boy: what are you going to do then?
- SJ Lazy Boy: You might be fine without him after awhile
- SJ Lazy Boy: But the second he comes back, suddenly you feel weak again
- itsmaexkabang: =/
- itsmaexkabang: i have no idea how to handle that.
- itsmaexkabang: i mean
- itsmaexkabang: i know im not going to let him back in my life just yet.
- itsmaexkabang: you know it could be just a spurr of the moment kinda thing.
- itsmaexkabang: when he told me he missed me, i guess thats just how he felt during that time.
- itsmaexkabang: but now, it changed.
- itsmaexkabang: and the next time he does that.
- itsmaexkabang: i dont wanna be stupid enough and fall for that again.
- itsmaexkabang: i have to let him suffer for awhile.
- itsmaexkabang: cause how am i supposed to know.
- itsmaexkabang: that thats what he really wants.
- itsmaexkabang: i think, the thing is. i let him walk all over me too much.
- itsmaexkabang: he takes too much control.
- itsmaexkabang: and right now. i feel like. i need to step up my game.
- itsmaexkabang: that just because he comes in, doesnt mean hes not gonna walk out.
Just something I need to remember, in case something happens like this. I don't want to make another stupid mistake.